feat: 改进配置加载逻辑并更新项目配置

当配置文件不存在时自动生成示例配置
添加pyproject.toml作为项目构建配置
更新.gitignore忽略更多文件类型
删除不再使用的反向WebSocket示例文件

pyproject.toml

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+[build-system]
+requires = ["setuptools>=61.0", "wheel"]
+build-backend = "setuptools.build_meta"
+
+[project]
+name = "neobot"
+version = "0.1.0"
+description = "NEO Bot Framework - A high-performance bot framework"
+readme = "README.md"
+requires-python = ">=3.14"
+license = {text = "MIT"}
+authors = [
+    {name = "Neo", email = "neo@example.com"}
+]
+keywords = ["bot", "discord", "qq", "onebot"]
+classifiers = [
+    "Development Status :: 4 - Beta",
+    "Intended Audience :: Developers",
+    "License :: OSI Approved :: MIT License",
+    "Programming Language :: Python :: 3",
+    "Programming Language :: Python :: 3.14",
+]
+
+dependencies = [
+    "aiohttp>=3.9.0",
+    "websockets>=12.0",
+    "playwright>=1.40.0",
+    "redis>=5.0.0",
+    "orjson>=3.9.0",
+    "loguru>=0.7.0",
+    "tomlkit>=0.12.0",
+    "watchdog>=3.0.0",
+    "discord.py>=2.0.0",
+    "aiohappyeyeballs>=2.6.1",
+    "aiomysql>=0.2.0",
+    "beautifulsoup4>=4.12.0",
+    "requests>=2.31.0",
+    "cython>=3.0.0",
+]
+
+[project.optional-dependencies]
+dev = [
+    "pyinstrument>=4.5.0",
+    "memory-profiler>=0.61.0",
+    "psutil>=5.9.8",
+    "pytest>=7.4.0",
+    "pytest-asyncio>=0.21.0",
+    "flake8>=7.0.0",
+    "mypy>=1.5.0",
+]
+
+[project.urls]
+Homepage = "https://github.com/yourusername/neobot"
+Documentation = "https://github.com/yourusername/neobot#readme"
+Repository = "https://github.com/yourusername/neobot"
+"Bug Tracker" = "https://github.com/yourusername/neobot/issues"
+
+[tool.setuptools]
+packages = ["core", "models", "plugins", "adapters"]
+package-dir = {"" = "."}
+
+[tool.setuptools.package-data]
+"core" = ["py.typed"]
+"plugins" = ["**/*.py"]
+"models" = ["**/*.py"]
+
+[tool.setuptools.exclude-package-data]
+"*" = [
+    "config.toml",
+    "config.example.toml",
+    "ca/*",
+    "*.pem",
+    "*.key",
+]
+
+[tool.pytest.ini_options]
+testpaths = ["tests"]
+python_files = ["test_*.py"]
+asyncio_mode = "auto"
+
+[tool.mypy]
+python_version = "3.14"
+warn_return_any = true
+warn_unused_configs = true
+disallow_untyped_defs = true
+check_untyped_defs = true
+no_implicit_optional = true
+warn_redundant_casts = true
+warn_subclassing = true
+strict_optional = true
+plugins = ["mypy.plugins.asyncio"]